Messy day

After about 1 week plus as a SAHM, I still have not settled and got into the routine. Things were a bit messy some days.

I am feeling very guilty now as I didn't tie up my J.Ying's hair for school today! J.Ying asked me to tie her hair before we left the house to school. I was busy preparing her snack (honey pancake cooked by me) for her tea time at school, and I knew later we will have some free time at her jie jie school as normally we reach J.En school pretty early at around 12 noon (both the girls' school hours start from 12.30pm). Normally we park at the school car park and chit-chat awhile before J.En walks into her school. Then we will head to J.Ying school which take less than 5 minutes drive. So, I thought today is just another school day and I thought I can tie her hair when reach J.En school. BUT the traffic was not smooth due to TODAY IS FRIDAY! Some schools ended earlier, and I was shocked when I was about to reach J.En school as I saw long queue of cars! My last experience was my car stuck in such long car queue for 15 minutes for less than 200 meter in front of the school.

I was wondering what's the reason for such a bad traffic at the school area as Chinese school won't dismiss early on Friday. Then I saw a big poster hanging at the Secondary school stating today is the Education Fair. Now I know why it is so jam. I have to drop off my J.En at her primary school main gate without heading to the car park. Then I rushed to J.Ying school while worrying about the traffic since it is Friday. The traffic was not too bad towards J.Ying's school. After some normal queuing time, I dropped off my J.Ying. I suddenly realised that I didn't tie her long straight hair when I saw her walking towards the school gate! It was too late as I could not ask her to get back to my car, neither I can find a parking lot to park my car there or nearby (This school has only about 10 parking lot nearby and most of the time are parked by the customers or owners of shops nearby...which mean parking is almost impossible!).

I am full with guilty feeling now. I am such an unorganized person! I should have tied her hair before we left for school. Not sure whether she will be scolded by her school teacher for that. I need to check with my girl when I fetch her from school later.

This is not the only disorder incident today. This morning I drove to fetch my J.Shan to her kindergarten without bringing my handbag! Luckily I was not stopped by police as I have no Identity Card and no driving license! I only realised about that when I reached home and wanted to take my handbag out from the car. I was panic when I couldn't find my handbag in the car, thought that I had left it some where. I felt so relief when I found it safely at home. What a woman!

Updated at 8.30pm
I did another ridiculous thing for the day. I left the house to fetch my girl from school with my grill door unlocked! My hubby came back from work and saw the keys and padlock hanging at the grill door. My dear hubby took a picture just to show the evidence to his careless wife! Not only him, but I also wonder what was wrong with me today?!